This year the epidemic has been so severe that many people have been forced to isolate themselves at home. The supposed joy of being reunited was soon replaced by the worries of being in the same room with family members.

Survey results show that most adults who live with their parents report that the main form of communication with their parents is often disputes. More than two-thirds believe that interactions with parents are often dominated by arguments.

For example, someone just had a fight with their parents over Shuanghuanglian, and then a new conflict broke out over issues such as urging marriage.

In the context of the spread of the epidemic, there is no need for blind dates, but the nagging of parents has not stopped.

When asked where the nail clippers are, parents will associate it with the wedding, which is really annoying.

Many little things in life become the trigger of quarrels.

Mr. Wang returned to Henan for the New Year and repeatedly tried to persuade his father to wear a mask but failed. In the end, he put pressure on his father on the condition that he refused to mention marriage and blind dates without wearing a mask.

While I was washing up in the bathroom, my mother noticed that I was chatting with my classmates for a few words and didn't notice that I was doing something, so she started nagging again.

These seemingly trivial things gradually accumulate over a long period of time at home, causing conflicts between parents and children to increase day by day, and the family atmosphere to become tense.

Parents began to realize the seriousness of the epidemic and chose to stay at home with peace of mind. At this time, their children became the targets of their pickiness.

After the holidays were extended, children were increasingly disliked by their parents, and family conflicts became more frequent. Some people even said they did not plan to go home in the next two years.

For example, when parents see their children staying up late or having different living habits than their own, they can't help but nag them.

Young people believe that this is their own way of life. Neither side is willing to compromise, and the conflicts continue to intensify.

Differences in living habits are a major contradiction.

WeChat’s 2018 male user usage data shows that staying up late is most common among the post-90s and post-00s groups, while those born in the 60s and 70s mostly follow the sun’s schedule.

The survey also found that first-tier cities won the championship of staying up late, and overtime was an important reason.

Many young people prefer working or relaxing at night, and parents, who usually go to bed early and get up early, are often unhappy when their children stay up late.

However, it is difficult for young people to change their long-term living habits, which can easily lead to friction.

Discord in values ​​is also key.

Parents and children are in different eras and have very different concepts.

Parents are always worried about their children's marriage matters and urge them to get married as soon as they see them. However, young people have their own ideas and are very disgusted with this behavior of urging marriage.

Children do not want to get married too early and want to focus on career development first, while parents feel that they should start a family at a certain age. There are differences in concepts between the two parties, which often leads to disputes and discord.

Many young people cannot communicate with their parents. They can communicate smoothly with their peers, but they are stuck with their parents.

You know, parents don't like to be interrupted when talking.

If parents plan to go out to play cards, they might as well sit down and discuss, compare various options, and choose the most suitable one.

For example, playing cards with my parents at home.

When communicating, you can share more personal feelings. For example, if you feel like getting up at 7 a.m. is too early, you can express that you feel very tired after trying it.

Only by putting the issues out for communication can we avoid a backlog of conflicts.

During the epidemic, have there been any disputes between your family and your parents that remain fresh in your memory? Please share these stories in the comment area. In the meantime, don’t forget to like and reblog this post!