In today's society, many young couples are struggling with one question: whether to have children. This question puts them in a dilemma just like the protagonist in the story. There are many complicated factors hidden behind this decision.

In this day and age, many women have their own career pursuits.

Like the 28-year-old woman mentioned in the article, she loves her job.

Modern women invest a lot of time and energy in their studies and career development. For example, in first-tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, they may have to struggle for many years to stabilize their position in the workplace.

If you choose to have children at this time, your career may be interrupted.

Giving up on career advancement may result in years of hard work being wasted. This is a problem that many professional women must face.

At the same time, those workplaces are very competitive and do not allow employees to leave their jobs temporarily. This situation therefore makes them resistant to having children.

Men face the same occupational pressures.

Data shows that in some new start-ups, when male employees take time off to take care of children, their work responsibilities are quickly transferred. When they return to work, they may experience reduced pay or no hope of promotion.

They also have to balance career development with having children.

Families often place a lot of expectations on fertility issues.

In many traditional families, especially in some rural areas of our country, parents generally hope that their children can have children. In their view, getting married and having children is a matter of course.

This puts tremendous pressure on young people who do not want to have children.

The fiancé and his family of the protagonist in the article probably also adhere to this traditional concept.

In modern urban families, although concepts have changed, family members' expectations of young people are still an important aspect that young people need to consider.

In Shanghai, parents of some families may be more sympathetic to the concept that young people should prioritize career pursuits. However, deep down, they still hope that their children will have offspring at the right time. The pressure brought about by this kind of family expectation deserves attention and attention.

The general public has established ideas about whether to have children or not.

The protagonist experiences a strange vision in which people often unconsciously evaluate others based on so-called "traditional norms."

In some Asian countries, the problem of population aging is prominent, and the general view supports childbirth to maintain population balance. Childlessness may be seen as individualistic or contrary to social progress.

In Japan, the government has implemented a number of policies to promote fertility. Although these policies are invisible, they bring additional psychological burden to those who have no intention of having children.

In some places in Europe and the United States, individualistic cultures are more prevalent. Although attitudes towards childlessness are relatively tolerant, there are still a few people who hold conservative views and believe that childbearing is a woman's duty.

In such a social environment, the protagonist encounters the puzzled looks of others and inevitably feels confused in his heart.

If a couple disagrees on whether to have children, it often leads to a lot of arguments.

The fiancé is eager to have children immediately after marriage, but the heroine has reservations. This difference in concept is like a deep chasm between them.

In this case, communication is particularly important.

In some big cities in China, many newlyweds have different opinions on childcare, and conflicts within the family occur frequently. Many couples even choose to divorce because of this.

In real life, there are many differences between couples. Some of them have different growth backgrounds, one grew up in a conservative family, while the other grew up in a more forward-thinking family; other couples have a huge age gap, which has led to Their life plans are different.

Different minds will inevitably have completely different views on fertility issues.

Everyone’s definition of happiness is different and their personal pursuits are also different.

This woman, 28 years old, prefers to pursue her passions when she is young and strive to achieve personal value.

In Western countries, many individuals give up having children and instead devote themselves to personal interests and causes such as travel, artistic creation, and charity.

There is a woman in the UK who donated her personal property to poor children in Africa after she became infertile so that they could receive education. For her, such behavior is the happiness she pursues.

At home, some young people have shown great interest in climbing steep mountains or conducting scientific expeditions. They believe that such a lifestyle makes life meaningful.

Differences in individual pursuits become an important consideration when it comes to fertility.

If you are forced to have children and give up your long-held ideals, you may be trapped in persistent depression and self-denial.

At different stages of life, the meaning and impact of childbirth are also different.

The age of 28 is at a more appropriate stage in terms of childbearing age.

But from the perspective of personal career development, it may be a critical period for growth.

In the U.S. technology field, many women between the ages of 28 and 32 have the opportunity to join the company's core R&D team or take on key management positions.

This consideration applies to individuals of different genders. Men may be trying to start a business. If they already have children, they need to take on more responsibilities and adjust their entrepreneurial risk strategies. Women, on the other hand, need to consider physiological factors and wait for economic and career changes between childbirth and career development. trade-off between stability.

In modern society, the decision of whether to have children is so complex and involves the entanglement of many factors.

How do you view this issue?